LOVING

You are here to grow spiritually. All you encounter can help you accomplish this. If you are committed to loving, everything becomes meaningful and useful. Your physical life is a means to realize your potential. Worldly pursuits and experiences are not ends in themselves. For NOTHING lasts except the YOU that you are creating. Never forget this! For throughout your life there will be many things which impede your progress in developing spiritually. You must put mundane matters in perspective. For example, never let guilt or self-recrimination overwhelm you. They are handicaps you can live without. They are UNNECESSARY. You will be sidetracked occasionally … developing self-serving habits. You must constantly renew your steadfast commitment to love.

Since you want to be a loving spirit … you probably would not have read this far if you were not ‘striving’ … it will be helpful if you consider what can keep you from loving. You are familiar with human nature’s foibles and follies … the predicaments we get ourselves into. Throughout your lifetime your decisions tend to be either self-serving or for the benefit of others. Your choices which engender habits, gradually determine what you are becoming. The more you ‘turn in on yourself’, for whatever reasons, the more difficult it is to love. Becoming selfish and self-centered atrophies the spirit AND it becomes increasingly more difficult to love and experience joy. But you needn’t worry. Loving IS easy and its own reward.

You are subject to a tidal wave of choices whether you are aware of them or not. Ideas and products are spawned daily. What was once taken for granted, even considered sacrosanct, has been changing dramatically: Family, religion, country … the way you view and handle the world around you. For millennia most people lived in a community. Life was simple … even predictable. Not anymore.

Now there is so much to be aware of … so much to know. You work, you travel, you listen to the media, you read. What should you do? What should you not do? So many decisions. So many paths you can go down. Nice to have choices but they can be daunting.

It is important to ‘step back, take a breath’ and ask: “How will this affect my life … my inner life?” “How can I sustain hope and confidence?” Ultimately YOU are your most important responsibility. You must have clear vision of what you are and what you are doing with your life. You are a spiritual being. You are striving to love more and more. Nothing you encounter will be too daunting or devastating if you trust in love … your ability to love … ALWAYS.

Understand life’s ‘challenges’ Accept them. They are the means for your growth!!
 


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